MY HIJAB

O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful.

Surah Al-Ahzab. Qur’an 33:59.

Why do Muslim women wear the Hijab?

The Hijab is an obligation from Allah ﷻ to the believing women and it is a form of modesty. Wearing the Hijab is a sign of obedience to Allah ﷻ. No matter your level of Iman wear the Hijab. Don’t feel you need to reach a certain level of Iman before donning your Hijab. Wear it with pride, make dua and seek the help of Allah to make you steadfast in obeying Him. Know that Allah sees and will reward you for your struggles!

Know that Allahﷻ sees and will reward you for your struggles!

I came across a poem I wrote about two years ago when I had a change of environment where I found myself in the midst of non-hijabis. I mean being the only female in a class wearing the hijab, walking across the street and having people stare at what is on my head:( I wrote this poem to get some comfort and I hope you find comfort in it too!

MY HIJAB

What do you call it?

A form of oppression…patriarchy?

Uncivilized…old fashioned?

An extremist practice?

I scare people away.

What is the significance; you ask?

Evolution makes us cover our body.

I don my hair as part of my body.

It makes me self-conscious.

A reminder to keep striving.

Do you know:

It serves as a form of modesty.

Prevents unnecessary gaze from men.

Prevents needless attention.

The society and Hijab.

Obstacles I face;

Being the only female in a place donning the Hijab.

Makes it seem I am struggling with my identity.

One definite thing: I stand out.

To you who don it: promote it.

To you who don’t: strive to don it.

We need to appreciate the beauty of the Hijab.

Have a high esteem of yourself.

You expect me to be more religious, pure… perfect; I ask you who is?

You need to understand:

I am not free from imperfections.

I make mistakes.

My Hijab

It serves as a reminder to keep striving.

It serves as a reminder that I am still Muslim.

It serves as a reminder than even when my Iman is low, I still belong to Islam.

I cover my head not my brain.

I am not perfect, but Islam is.

Salam Alaikum Waramatullah Wabarakatu

My Hijab poem!

My dear females, how do you cope with society pressure to wear the Hijab? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comment section below.

Share this post if you found it beneficial. Any good thing I have said is from Allah ﷻ and any wrong is from myself and I seek His ﷻ forgiveness. In Sha Allah I will catch up in my next post to talk about… Till then Fi Amanillah (I leave you in the custody of Allah ﷻ)

THE ROLE MODELS: THE YOUTHS IN THE CAVE

AS SALAM ALAIKUM WARAMATULLAH WABARAKATU
Role models have a huge impact on us and how we view ourselves. They are people whose behavior and character we try to emulate, because we admire and aspire to be like them in a certain way. The Prophet (SAW) is the perfect role model for humanity, as Allah (SWT) says in the Qur’an: “Indeed in the Messenger of Allah you have a good example to follow for him who hopes in Allah and the Last Day, and remembers Allah much.” (Qur’an 33:21)
In Surah Khaf Allah (SWT) tells us a story about youths who sought seclusion from persecution in the cave. I find this story inspiring as it serves as a reminder and motivation for us that striving in the path of Allah could come with persecution and that we should not wait till we attain a certain age.
The reason why reference is made to the youths in the cave as role models is because it is often difficult for people to regard youths as role models. Reason being that the stage of youthfulness is when a person is still growing and learning. Allah provides us with examples of righteous youths in the Qur’an through a story in Surah Khaf verse 9-26. This story provides a positive perspective of youths which is contrary to the media portrayal and people’s expectation. It serves as a reminder and gives us hope that we can strive to be like them in the obedience of Allah. (Click to read full Tafsir.)
Narration has it that the youths were children of influential people from noble background. They went out one day to a festival in their land, where the people gather once a year to worship idols and offer sacrifice to them. These youths saw this practice and realized it is wrong as prostration and sacrifice should only be dedicated to Allah (SWT). Individually they withdrew from the festival and met under the shade of a tree, with none knowing the other. Therefore, they were brought together because of their belief in Allah. They disclosed the reason for their retreatment from the people among one another and they all realized they share the same belief. They agreed to be brothers in faith and met in a place to worship Allah (SWT) together.
Their people found out and informed their tyrannical king who commanded and encouraged people to worship idols. They were summoned and they gave Dawah to the king, calling him to believe in Allah (SWT). He refused and threatened them. He commanded them to be stripped of their clothing’s, but gave them time to think about the situation whether they would return to worship idols. It was in this period they were able to flee to the cave from persecution for the sake of their religion.
They went into seclusion and isolation from their people. Allah concealed and protected them from their people as no trace of their whereabouts was known. Allah (SWT) also protected them from the sun as He made the sun enter the cave without touching them. This was Allah(SWT) preserving them. He made them to sleep and preserved them for 300 years and 9 more. We see how Allah (SWT) protected and preserved them by making their story known in the Qur’an and they serve as signs for humanity.
Allah kept and preserve this story to remind and motivate us. This story should make us question ourselves with regard to our Iman. These youths resisted the pressure to worship idols and sought refuge in a cave, by giving up the pleasure of livings a comfortable life. They gave up the Dunya for the Aakhira. Point of reflection: what are you willing to give up for the sake of Allah?
They achieved the status of being remembered till eternity as Allah made them as signs for us. Their consciousness of Allah made them sincere, and Allah (SWT) protected them from persecution. If we are also sincere, Allah will protect and save us from persecution. There are lesson to draw from this story. Such as importance of being surrounded with good company, being sincere in our worship and doing things for the sake of Allah.

These youths took advantage of their youths before their old age. The Prophetic narration goes: ‘Take advantage of five before five: your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free time before your work, and your life before your death.’ [Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani]

The period of youthfulness is when a person is full of energy and is able to learn so many things, able to perform various act of worship before old age. Another blessing youths can take advantage of is Health and Free time for doing good. The Prophet said: ‘there are two blessings which many people lose: (They are) Health and free time for doing good’ [Sahih Bukhari]. As youths we should take advantage of our free time before we get busy. Although, everyone seems to be occupied and most youths are in education busy with studies. However, youths have more time that a person who is old, because they shoulder less responsibility. Yet, youths claim to be occupied. If we are able to schedule and utilize our time effectively we will be able to realize that we have free time. Point of Reflection: What do you do with your free time? Would you like to die doing what you are doing in your free time? Would you like people to know what you are using your free time on?
If we take advantage of our youths we will be rewarded with being under the shade on the Day of Judgement. The Prophet (SAW) said: There are seven persons whom Allah will shade on a day when there is no shade but His. They are a just ruler, a young person who grew up in the worship of Allah, a person whose heart is attached to the mosques, two persons who love each other and who meet and depart from each other for the sake of Allah, a man whom a beautiful woman of high status seduces but he rejects her by saying I fear Allah, a person who spends in charity and conceals it such that his right hand does not know what his left hand has given, and a person who remembered Allah in private and he wept.[Sahih Bukhari]
How rewarding is this! Allah has reserved a reward for a youth who grows up in His obedience. This is a very high status and we should strive to attain this. It is important to realize that for a person to deserve such high status, he/she must have avoided temptations, as the period of youthfulness is when a person is lively and faced with so many temptations. The youth will avoid transgressing against the limits of Allah, engage in seclusion like the people of the cave, be obedient to Allah and his/her parents, have  sincerity and seek knowledge.
 

How can we be productive youths:           

  • Fulfill the right of Allah by fulfilling the Fard (compulsory) act of worship.
  • Respect and be obedient to your parents and family.
  • Seek knowledge and implement it.
  • Be in a good company.                                                                                 
  • Be beneficial to others, such as helping out and speaking kind words to people.
If you are still a youth make the best of it, if you have passed the stage of youthfulness, you can bring other youths or your child up in the obedience of Allah.
I conclude with the Dua that was made by the youths in the cave (Qur’an18:10 
                                                                                                               رَبَّنَآ ءَاتِنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً وَهَيِّىءْ لَنَا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا رَشَدًا  
Rabbana atina min ladunka rahmatan wahayyi lana min amrina rashadan
(Our Lord! Bestow on us mercy from yourself and facilitate our affairs in the right way.)
 
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